Give him the room he needs.

He has a home, and he loves it. He has work, and he shows up to it. He probably has a church. And after all of that, most men have nowhere — no room of their own, no floor to put the weight on, no men close enough to ask a second question.

This is that room. A serious place to train, a quiet place to think, coffee and chairs turned toward each other, and five hundred men who signed the same written standard he will sign.

You are not fixing him. You are giving him somewhere to go — and, honestly, giving yourself a husband who comes home lighter.